Goddess Erryn Hex

Keeping Long Distance D/s Alive


Being in a long distance relationship with your Dominant or submissive can be a lot of work, especially if there are large gaps between seeing each other. Below are some ideas to help keep your BDSM relationship going while you are apart.


  • Keep track of their orgasms
  • Have them edge during the day
  • Have them send daily pictures/videos
  • Mutual masturbation over Facetime/Skype/phone
  • Sexting
  • Masturbate for them over Facetime/Skype/phone
  • Use smartphone controlled sex toys to pleasure them
  • Use smartphone controlled sex toys for forced orgasms
  • Guided masturbation
  • Give them regular tasks and ask for proof of completion
  • Wear plugs, toys or clamps under your clothing
  • Have them perform a physical task for you on camera, such as spanking
  • Send nudes
  • Share your journey on a blog or social media such as FetLife
  • Make a plan for when you see eachother again
  • Write kinky letters and mail them to eachother


Go and have fun!

Goddess Erryn


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Posted on 1st August 2019


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