Keeping Long Distance D/s Alive
Being in a long distance relationship with your Dominant or submissive can be a lot of work, especially if there are large gaps between seeing each other. Below are some ideas to help keep your BDSM relationship going while you are apart.
- Keep track of their orgasms
- Have them edge during the day
- Have them send daily pictures/videos
- Mutual masturbation over Facetime/Skype/phone
- Masturbate for them over Facetime/Skype/phone
- Use smartphone controlled sex toys to pleasure them
- Use smartphone controlled sex toys for forced orgasms
- Guided masturbation
- Give them regular tasks and ask for proof of completion
- Wear plugs, toys or clamps under your clothing
- Have them perform a physical task for you on camera, such as spanking
- Send nudes
- Share your journey on a blog or social media such as FetLife
- Make a plan for when you see eachother again
- Write kinky letters and mail them to eachother
Go and have fun!
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Posted on 1st August 2019